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Sadie’s story

For SSG

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Our Sadie is a sweet, lovely lady cat who I think knows very well how good she has it in our her warm, comfortable, safe house.  Never one to shy away from affection, she’s a lap cat extraordinaire and most nights will be found on the bed snug up against my ankles.

It wasn’t always that way.

She was, at the tender age of one (our vet’s best guess), a street cat.  We’ll never know if she once had a cozy home or if she spent her entire first year prowling downtown Lansing.  What we do know is that one April day in 2009, she made her way to the parking lot beneath the overhang at Impression 5 Science Center, a marvelous children’s museum and The Wife’s workplace.

This parking area was cold, hard, dirty, unforgiving, and no place for a cat.  Certainly not a cat about to… have kittens.  Yet, it was the best place she could find, a la the stable in Bethlehem, and so she settled down that morning and presumably got as comfortable as she could.  The Wife, as it happens, parks there every day, and on that day parked at the end spot, just in front of where Sadie made her makeshift birthing room.  The Wife arrived that morning, got out of her car, and was greeted with meows by this beautiful little black kitty.  She (The Wife) thought perhaps this cat was injured, but had her hands full of work bags and purses and (gotta figure) coffee mugs, and so didn’t make any attempt to pet her or pick her up.  One of her colleagues mentioned seeing a black cat roaming around the property, and the two of them found some sardines to bring to her.  The Wife went out, and carefully gave the snack to Sadie, who wasted no time snarfing it up.

Later in the day, when it was time for a run to the bank and some lunch, The Wife came back out to the car and saw sweet Sadie still in her spot.  This time, her (Sadie’s) leg was in a weird pose, and Sadie, still meowing, was all contorted in a strange position, so The Wife approached her and reached down to see what might be up with her weirdly-posed back leg.  It all became clear when The Wife realized that this cat was having kittens.

At this point, The Wife’s concern grew to epic proportions, and she knew she couldn’t let this beautiful momma cat and her kittens stay in that parking lot.  It was, then, at this point that she telephoned me and asked if I would “do her a favor.”  Sure.  With two cats in the house already, I hesitated when she told me what her scheme was, but I can just as much say no to a momma cat and five kittens as I can say no to my daughters when they turn on their Puppy Dog Eyes.

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When I arrived at Impression 5 with the cat carriers, one of the kittens had already died.  Ugh.  I don’t take the death of any animal very well, but a kitten?  A couple-hours-old kitten?  Oy.  That was tough.  I don’t recall how we got Sadie and her four remaining kittens home, much less her lost kitten, but we did.  We set up a basket, furnished with enough blankets to supply a neighborhood of cats, on the front porch, and attended to them as well as we could.

Warning – stop reading now if news of the first kitten was any kind of traumatic for you.

I should mention that, not surprisingly given her circumstances, Sadie came home to us not in the best of shape.  Her fur was thin all around and even missing in spots, and she herself was thin and clearly undernourished – a bad enough situation for any cat, but downright scary for a new momma cat.  Undernourished and weak as Sadie was, she was unable to provide as much milk to her kittens as they needed in those first few hours and days.  This was one of those times when love just wasn’t enough.  Despite a number of hurried visits to the veterinarian’s, each day for the next three days, another of sweet sweet Sadie’s kittens died.

This hit us all hard, Sadie included I’m sure, but it hit our Anna with the most brutal force.  We lost one of the kittens on the way to the vet’s office, and I don’t remember what we did with the first kitten to die.  We did, though, bury the third and fourth in a spot in our back yard, with at least one of the burials preceded by a little ceremony.  The Wife and I thought it would ease the pain for poor little Anna.

We were wrong.

Anna sobbed and sobbed when we buried the last kitten.  That girl is petite by any standard – easily the smallest in her class at school – but she has a heart the size of North America.  I suppose she knew, at some level of intellect or reason or something, that it was going to be hard to keep more than three or four cats in the house, but that just couldn’t compete with the emotion of seeing the little fellas die.  Her big sister Audrey, while not nearly as affected by the kittens, comforted her as maybe only a big sister can.

Anyway, over the next few weeks, we made a few more trips to the veterinarian’s to get Sadie back in good health, and watched her one remaining kitten get stronger and more awesome.  Milton – named for the hero of the Hayde Ardalan book that we read to the girls over and over when they were little – was a cute little squirt of a kitten, and has grown up to be a charming, handsome young tom.

We still think of the kittens that left us those first four days, and it still makes us sad, but Sadie and her Milton are part of our family now.  We love them, and, from all indications, they love us.

And that… is Sadie’s story.

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38 Responses

  1. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw poor Sadie! (and you guys too). But at least she got to keep Milton. And thank everything that is good in the word that she decided to go to that parking lot.

    Do they have a special bond? I mean, cats are supposed to move on once the kittens are old enough to fend for themselves. Do you think they know they’re related? Those pictures are so adorable!

    And you’re wife works at a science museum? So cool!

    January 30, 2013 at 10:52 am

    • Oh, I have thought that same thing sooo many times, SSG, about her deciding on that parking lot. She and Milton do have a special bond, for sure. Most of the time, they’re either being sweet together, or are a real hoot together.

      January 30, 2013 at 11:00 pm

      • How wonderful. And thank goodness for people like you and your family!

        One day I would like to hear the other kitties stories too :)

        January 31, 2013 at 2:21 am

  2. I feel Anna’s pain — what a horrible life lesson to have to watch and learn, but thank goodness for your family taking in Sadie and giving not only her but also Milton a new lease on life. You know both of them would have probably joined her other lost children across that Rainbow Bridge much earlier otherwise. ~ Kat

    January 30, 2013 at 11:03 am

    • I don’t doubt for a moment that Sadie and Milton would’ve indeed joined the rest if Sandra hadn’t brought them home. It sounds rotten, but I wonder if the other kittens maybe avoided some real trials, leaving us when they did. We couldn’t have kept them all, and who knows what fate might have given them in this life.

      January 30, 2013 at 11:05 pm

  3. Wow, what a story, Sid. Of course, anything about cats is up my alley. My geriatric cat showed up at my door 3 years ago and softy here fed her and nursed her back to health. She had a ruptured and infected ear drum so surgery was required @ $2000 but she is now healthy and a member of the family. Lucy, to this day, seems grateful for our help and is more dog-like in her affection. She is now 95% deaf but has a good, loving home. Click and blow up my gravatar and you can see Lucy!

    January 30, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    • I have little doubt Lucy is all kinds of grateful for your care. Well done.

      January 30, 2013 at 11:06 pm

  4. LOVE THIS BLOG! HAHA

    January 30, 2013 at 2:47 pm

  5. Oh dear lord Sid, now you have gone and done it, I’m practically a blubbering mess here at my keyboard. It’s such a sad story, yet there is happiness as well, an emotional rollar coaster to use an overused description.
    I sit here now with my all white cat Ripley that was abandoned and we adopted her as a tiny kitten on Sept. 10th, 2001. Little did we know that evening that the next morning the world would never be the same.
    Ah, I can’t go on anymore. But I appreciated your story and good on your wife, you, and your daughters to care about this cat and her babies.

    January 30, 2013 at 6:14 pm

    • Oooh, sorry about that Phil! Surprisingly, I don’t find myself revisiting the sorrow from four years ago, and am only enjoying the shenanigans of the two that stayed with us. You do the same. And give Ripley a little scratch behind the ears for us.

      January 30, 2013 at 11:09 pm

  6. There is comfort in knowing your family did all that could be done. Sometimes there are no answers to the questions we have. I think those of us who are very sensitive, often feel the weight of the world where animals are concerned. I am sure that the little ones who didn’t survive, at least knew the comfort of their mother’s love, and felt the touch of loving, human hands. Sadie and Milton continue to know that kind of love and special bond! Thanks for sharing this beautiful story and photos!

    January 30, 2013 at 7:55 pm

    • You said a very true thing there, Lori – feeling the weight of the world where animals are concerned. I really do feel that Sadie thanks us again and again for sharing our home with her. I can only hope that her little brood did indeed feel at least some of that comfort and love.

      January 30, 2013 at 11:13 pm

  7. Losing a kitten isn’t easy, for anyone…. I’ve lost a few cats in my life, and none of them were easy. I’m glad to see that everyone else is doing well, and I’m sure they have a wonderful, loving home (and I’m sure they are spoiled)!! :)

    January 30, 2013 at 8:43 pm

  8. Nice post, Sid.
    I learned from this post… how to write article in English, thanks… :)

    January 31, 2013 at 12:06 am

    • Well, thank you for that, Bams. Yours is one of many blogs I haven’t visited lately, but still I know you’re more than equal to the task of writing in English, my friend!

      January 31, 2013 at 9:21 am

  9. Reblogged this on All That JazzCat! and commented:
    Meet Sadie and learn about her incredible story. Hers is one of those stories that make you cry but that reminds you there’s still goodness in the world.
    Thank you Dad Knows and family for all you did and continue to do!

    January 31, 2013 at 2:32 am

  10. Reading through we were getting more and more worried. Thank goodness one of the little ones survived! A hard story but a great outcome for Sadie & Milton and you ;-)

    January 31, 2013 at 2:50 am

    • You know, it somehow escaped me as I was writing that this IS a sad story, and that really wasn’t what I intended! I can hardly stand the thought of animals suffering ever, but I guess I moved on from these little ones. Anyway, thanks for stopping by here – and it has been a great outcome for all of us!

      January 31, 2013 at 9:27 am

  11. Poor Anna. It is a sad story, but with a happy End. Sadie is doing good now, right?
    I think I shed a tear here somewhere…

    January 31, 2013 at 1:29 pm

    • Oh, absolutely, Dianda – Sadie is doing very well! Anna, too. :)

      February 2, 2013 at 10:56 am

      • That is good to know!

        February 2, 2013 at 11:53 am

  12. This is a really tragic story on one hand… On the other, at least Sadie and Milton are happy now. Well, maybe the other kittens as well, in some kind of kitten heaven? You saved two lives!:)

    January 31, 2013 at 1:36 pm

    • I’d certainly like to think those kittens – and all creatures – are in some kind of heaven.

      Speaking of creature, it occurs to me I haven’t seen any dogs in your photos lately.

      February 2, 2013 at 10:59 am

      • True! I’ll try my best to change it as soon as possible! Mishatsky without dogs isn’t the same blog;)

        February 6, 2013 at 11:02 am

  13. aww… i miss our cats. we had one momma cat. oh.. i’ll tell about it in a post.
    i should say, your family is a cat rescuer. :)

    January 31, 2013 at 10:54 pm

    • I guess we are cat rescuers. Yes, do tell about your momma cat!

      February 2, 2013 at 11:00 am

  14. Awwww, you made me tear up, Sid, and I’m not even a cat person. I’m a new dog person though, so there’s always hope. Great piece. =)

    January 31, 2013 at 11:37 pm

    • Heh heh – you’re welcome, Stacie. How is life with the new dog, by the way?

      February 2, 2013 at 11:01 am

      • Great, with one exception. He’s in a major shedding mode. I sometimes fall asleep cradling my vacuum, which really bums my husband out. =p

        February 3, 2013 at 11:56 pm

  15. So glad Sadie found you–it’s not unusual for a cat to lose all her kittens if she’s been living outdoors, but so glad she found you to help.

    February 1, 2013 at 4:30 pm

    • So are we! We felt helpless at the time, but were happy we could do what we could. Thanks for stopping by!

      February 2, 2013 at 11:03 am

  16. She and you saved one kitten, that is the miracle…and the joy in the miracle is that you saved Sadie too. Not uncommon to lose kittens when one is so young in having them. ANd now, what a life. I hopped over from my pal Jazz Cat Jay…nice meeting you all, Paw pats, Savannah

    February 2, 2013 at 7:36 pm

    • Hello, Savannah! Jay is one of my favorite people, er cats, and I’m glad you found your way here. I suppose there was a little miracle involved in Sadie coming to us, and she and Milton surviving less than ideal circumstances. Thanks for visiting!

      February 3, 2013 at 5:04 pm

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