Grandfathers, part 1
There’s nothing like an old family photograph to bring tears to your eyes during a family Christmas gathering, is there?
This photo of my maternal grandfather has been hanging on the wall in my parents’ house for as long as I can recall – but is no more, as it was presented to me as a gift this past Christmas. As gifts go, this is for sure one that will remain a treasure to me.
That’s him, Elmer Sicotte, at the lower left, the good-looking one
. He’s really the patriarch of the family, not only in real terms but in terms of physical appearance as well. I’m not usually good with picking up on family resemblances, but with my mother’s side of the family they’re obvious even to me. My cousin, my nephew, and my younger daughter – just for a brief list – all look remarkably like my grandfather. All these fabulous good looks kind of bypassed me, though. Alas!
My grandfather was as much at home on a pair of skates as he was not. I’ve heard my mom recall on occasion how he was known as “fastest man on skates” among those in the know in Michigan’s upper peninsula a century ago. He coached the Michigan Tech U. hockey team in the early 1920s, in two nonconsecutive seasons. While it’s been ages since I’ve seen it, my nephew will assure you that grandpa’s photo still hangs prominently in the MTU Huskies’ ice arena on their campus in Houghton. Another of my family’s treasured photos is one of grandpa at that arena talking with John MacInnes, who coached the team for 26 seasons in the 1950s through the 1980s and is a legend in American hockey lore himself.
What with a skating legend father, and living in the chilly hinterland that is the UP of Michigan, it’s no surprise that my mother learned how to skate as a child. She moved to Lansing with my father upon their marriage, and my sister and I grew up here. The four of us spent many a winter Sunday afternoon at a local rink skating together. I was never bound for a career with the Detroit Red Wings, but I could certainly get around the ice as well as the next kid. I didn’t keep up with it, though, and so my guess is now I’d look pretty foolish trying to maneuver an ice rink. Perhaps it’s in the same realm as riding a bicycle – once you learn, you don’t really unlearn?
I think I may have just talked myself into taking the family on an ice skating outing one of these days…
Anyway, back to this picture – it was taken at the Houghton jewelry shop owned by one of my grandfather’s teammates in the photo. Carlos Haug, the tall gentleman in the center, ran Haug’s Jewelry for a hundred years (that may be a family exaggeration). According to my mother, whose engagement ring is from Haug’s Jewelry, the store was an exceedingly nice establishment, and sold silverware and dishes as well.
The word is that this is a portrait of the Portage Lake Lakers hockey club, which brings up the obvious question of what the big H on their sweaters is for. I’ll leave that for another time.

I can understand your excitement, Sid. My father’s younger brother sent me a picture of my dad at age 15 that I did not know existed as most were burned in a house fire. I printed a good copy for my mom and a few tears were shed when I gave it to her at Christmas. They had been married 51 years when my father passed in 2001.
January 5, 2013 at 1:44 pm
Oh, a house fire – utterly heartbreaking, Louis. But a shot of your dad from so long ago is a treasure, isn’t it? We’ve found that the older we get, the more keen we are to genealogy and the less likely it is we have someone in the family at large who can tell us stories from ages ago. So I say get all the photos out of your uncle that you can.
January 6, 2013 at 8:54 pm
Just my mom’s tears, of course (smile)!
January 5, 2013 at 1:46 pm
Wonderful! Skating rocks. And it’s the same as riding a bike. You never forget.
And I have just the perfect skating outing for you and your family!
January 5, 2013 at 2:08 pm
I hope you’re right, C. The perfect outing, eh? I’m in.
January 6, 2013 at 8:55 pm
Looks like you!
No wait, you look like him!
January 5, 2013 at 5:11 pm
I don’t necessarily believe you – but I’ll take it!
January 6, 2013 at 8:56 pm
It’s the chin.
January 7, 2013 at 4:01 am
This is really special, Sid. And the older we get the more we learn to cherish such family keepsakes.
January 5, 2013 at 9:53 pm
So, so true!
January 6, 2013 at 8:56 pm
The more we age the more we appreciate LIFE, lol. For instance, as a kid, I didn’t care or even notice things like roadside wildflowers, etc. I certainly do now.
January 12, 2013 at 12:00 pm
What an incredible gift, Sid! I’m a sentimental one, and I cherish those little pieces of family history. It’s apparent that your Grandfather’s memory holds a very special place within your heart; he must have been quite a fellow. I think he’d be smiling from above, just knowing how much that picture means to you. And I think a family skating outing is a must!! Great post, Sid!
January 6, 2013 at 10:06 pm
You know, he was the only grandparent still alive by the time I was born, and even he died when I was five. I don’t have much memory of him, but there are super clear pictures in my mind of his house in Chassell, Michigan. Funny. Always a pleasure to have you visit!
January 8, 2013 at 11:01 pm
Far out, groovy. I am not sentimental at all as shown in my comment above “Just my mom’s tears, of course” (smile)!
January 12, 2013 at 12:03 pm
A gift to treasure, for sure. The photo and the legacy.
January 7, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Definitely, Lisa. Happy 2013 to you, by the way.
January 8, 2013 at 11:03 pm
Lovely pic!
January 8, 2013 at 7:31 am
Thank you – it really is. A group of such nice looking fellows couldn’t be much of a tough hockey team, could they?
January 8, 2013 at 11:05 pm
I love it! You know how I feel about old photos I’m sure.
A great picture, it has Michigan written all over it!
The ‘H’ is for…Huron or Houghton maybe?
Have you been skating yet? I don’t skate but I hear it is indeed like any other sport, once you learn you never forget. I know folks in their 70′s that still skate or downhill ski…that’s just awesome to me. I hope I’m still riding horses in *my* 70′s!
~d.
January 8, 2013 at 11:26 am
Hey, p.s….
Was that four on four hockey? And I dig the goalie’s pads…so would my son.
January 8, 2013 at 11:29 am
You’re probably right about the H, D. I really do need to figure that out.
Oh, I was all set to say they played standard six-to-a-team hockey, but I really can’t say for sure. My mom will know, though!
January 8, 2013 at 11:10 pm
I am a southerner. What’s hockey?
January 12, 2013 at 12:04 pm
One of my favorite Christmas trip memories with my oldest was ice skating in Central Park this year! I feared that I would end up flat on the ice as it had probably been almost 10 years since I’d been on skates, as we dodged the hockey bullet in this northwoods household! Indeed it was like riding a bike and so much fun! You need to make an outing of it on a nice winter day ~ Kat
January 9, 2013 at 6:43 pm
Another vote for skating – alright! It’s not so much a fear as it is a prediction, me falling on skates. I figure it will add to the fun, mostly for everyone else…
January 11, 2013 at 5:23 pm
What a great photo and story! I had to laugh a bit, thinking of skating. I never was any good at roller skating, a real clod I was! I only ice skated one time, on a farm pond of a girl friend of mine back in high school. She lent me her skates and from the moment I stood up, it was magic! Even on the bumpy ice of a farm pond, my feet and legs seemed to know just what to do and with grace! Thanks for helping me remember my one great moment of ice skating!
January 9, 2013 at 8:43 pm
I started to school in Anchorage and went thru 3rd grade. The fire co. came out every year at the beginning of winter and filled up a huge area (an oval berm held the water) in a playground right outside my back door I became quite proficient on ice skates then – but 50 something years later I would not risk my old, fragile bones, lol!
January 10, 2013 at 11:15 am
I guess they really are different activities, roller skating and ice skating. How great that you were so at home on the frozen pond! And about the memory recallment (?), let’s just say it’s all part of the service here!
Completely off-topic, guess whose wife has had a copy of Watership Down for ages? I’ve been meaning to tell you I’m in the throes of enjoying it, and thank you for recommending it. Grazie, Lori!
January 11, 2013 at 5:39 pm
Heartwarming! Happy New Year to you and your family, Louis!!
January 10, 2013 at 11:58 am
Thank you nyparrot and I wish you and yours a happy new year as well!
January 10, 2013 at 12:01 pm
What a special gift, Sid! Genealogy is indeed fascinating and made all the more interesting through stories and pictures handed down.
January 12, 2013 at 10:41 am
So true, Tricia; however, my interest in genealogy was zero until I reached my 50s.
January 12, 2013 at 12:06 pm
It really is, Tricia. You’ve reminded me that I need to ask my wife if she can find you in her comprehensive genealogy work! We’re at an age at which many of our aunts and uncles and grandparents are gone, and with them their stories.
January 16, 2013 at 10:10 am
Sid, I guess we have something in common. Elmer Sicotte was my married to my great-grandma. Found this while searching his name. From what what I hear about him from the family he was a really awesome guy on the ice and off.
January 19, 2013 at 8:42 pm